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we told stories about him which nobody else had ever heard, and before long we were laughing and having a good time. Best medicine is laughter!
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Excellent advice right there.
Remember that your grandmother will live on in all the deeds she's done - the good things shes done for you and your family. You and everyone else in her life in turn pass what you learned from her and how she impacted you on to those around you. This is how I've looked at my family members who have died, and I believe I honor them and do them justice by treating others in the world well, and striving to make the world a better place. Care for your parents and those around you to make sure they get through it alright, and care for yourself - make sure everyone talks about it (when they're ready) and things will be well.
And by the way, all of those lending their hearts in this thread: you are lovely people.